What to do next
Confirm you meet the residency and waiting requirements
Every jurisdiction sets a minimum residency period, and many impose a separation or waiting period before a divorce can be finalized — so even a fully agreed divorce is rarely immediate.
Document the agreement properly
Put parenting, support, and property terms into a written separation agreement. Vague or incomplete terms are the main reason 'agreed' divorces later return to court.
Have a lawyer review before filing
You may not need full representation, but a review protects you — particularly on support calculations and on anything affecting children, which a court will scrutinize regardless of your agreement.
Frequently asked questions
Do we both need lawyers?
Not necessarily, but each spouse having independent advice before signing reduces the risk of the agreement being challenged later.
How fast can it be finalized?
Faster than a contested divorce, but still subject to any mandatory separation or waiting period and to court processing times.
Will the court just approve whatever we agree?
Largely on property and support between adults, but courts scrutinize arrangements for children against their best interests and can decline terms that fall short.
Can it become contested later?
Yes, if terms are unclear or circumstances change. Careful drafting up front is the best protection.
This is general information, not legal advice. Laws vary by location and every situation is different — speak with a qualified lawyer about your specific circumstances.